Chicago: Neither here, nor there
Chicago for many people is a sprawling metropolis full of opportunity. For many others it is a concrete jungle where you have to fight to make it.
The city redlined black individuals and banks put them in mortgages they could never afford with zero assurances. The story of the segregated Chicago is prominent in the inner city. Those who live there understand this, while others believe it is a distant reality. If you leave that reality in the inner city and go to a place like Iowa City, the entire battle changes. You are no longer around a community, You are alone. You are one of 1,035 black students at the University of Iowa, a school of 33,564 undergraduate, graduate, and professional students. It is as through self segregation and isolation as a means to navigate this city day to day.
Iowa City is just as bad as Chicago. Iowa City is a place that markets itself on being diverse, it hooks you in by being a field of opportunity. The quaint town down by the river. Iowa never tells you it is 98% white, a mostly red state, and if you are black you better get ready for the occasional “Nigger” to be thrown at you. Not many people see this Iowa City. They see another suburb at which to drop their affluent, white, college ready children off at, and make mistakes in a controlled environment that favors the white majority. The narrative of the black individual who struggles with this reality is barely ever written about.
Black individuals come to Iowa City hopeful and ready to become something. Often time we do not know what lies ahead, but we know it should be better than where we were. We face a different kind of violence. We navigate microaggressions, racism, classism, and the constant white fragility and nepotism that is pungent in the air. It is the new reality that is expressed behind closed doors with people who look like us. It is nearly forbidden to ever tell white people the truth here, but it is always acceptable to just smile and be someone’s black friend.
The stories we are telling about Chicago is one that comes from love of our family and the city. We wanted to tell our own stories and show the community that they are cared for, and to tell those who see themselves as “helping” that we have it under control. We want to uplift our community and show that times may be hard, but we are fighting and will do what our ancestors did before us.
This section was co-written by Glenn “Sonnie” Wooden and myself…
Joshua Housing
I was born and raised on the South Side of Chicago, just like the rest of my family. I was born at Mercy Hospital, and all but one of the schools I attended were on the South Side. The South Side is an odd place; there’s a flourishing community of blacks in a city in which they were never welcomed. They took communities they were redlined into and made homes, then branched out to areas in the city that were once neighborhoods for whites only. My paternal great-grandmother actually only was able to secure her home in South Shore because she was Creole with red hair. The atmosphere of resilience is instilled in all of us.
May 3, 2018
I was born and raised in Chicago, just like my parents and their parents, and I don’t mean Naperville or Schaumburg, I mean the South Side. It wasn’t the South Side you imagine, “Chiraq” does not exist, there aren’t explosives going off on Cottage Grove [Avenue]. My childhood was mostly peaceful, I got into a few fights but nothing crazy. My parents worked hard to make sure I and my sister could see more than just the bad parts of the city.
Growing up, we never lived in the really nice neighborhoods, but we were never in the hood, either. That, coupled with attending predominantly white schools, I often found myself feeling like a pariah. Around my white friends, I was too black, and around my black friends, I was too white. Their comments were never outwardly racist, never anything that was outwardly offensive.
Our Midwestern sensibilities made them nuanced or subtle. I was the kid who “speaks so well” or “talks too white.” I never really examined what those references meant as a child; back then, I still sought approval from those types of people. I conformed to the environment I was in to avoid having to confront expectations of what people thought I should be. This feeling of being an outsider never went away; at every stage of my life, I was always just too “something.” Up until I was 12 years old, I attended all-white schools. But in seventh grade, I transferred to a predominantly black school thinking that would allow me into a space where I was no longer an outsider. In retrospect, that thinking was incredibly naïve.
That feeling of isolation never went away and still lingers now as I finish my undergraduate degree at the University of Iowa. As I got older, I learned this feeling of being on the outside and looking in has nothing to do with my own day-to-day actions and behavior but was rather a reflection of what others expected of me. In high school, it was weird that I played soccer and was good at math and watched anime. In college, it’s weird that I’m not on an athletic scholarship or that I’m not like Urkel or that I’m not like Chief Keef.
As I matured, I learned that I will never be happy while seeking the approval of others. I gained an understanding that no matter what people think I should be, I can only be who I am. This realization allowed me to unpack all the backhanded compliments I grew up hearing. People were never really impressed with my vernacular when they told me “you speak so well,” but rather impressed that this black kid from the inner city had basic communication skills.
There was one instance that has always stuck with me as I reflected on my interactions with people who expected me to be anything other than who I am. My family took a weekend trip to Wisconsin Dells for my sister’s birthday, and at some point during the weekend, I held the door for a woman who was walking behind us. Nothing spectacular — I just held the door because she was right behind me, and I was simply being polite. She was in awe that I was so well-mannered, and when I spoke, she couldn’t believe how eloquent I was. She just had to speak to my parents and inform them what a wonderful young man I was.
Experiences such as these were groundbreaking revelations for me, because up until that point, I thought these people were genuinely impressed with my work ethic and good behavior. In reality, I was never even in the same race as my peers, and these people probably didn’t even hear what I was saying. I felt robbed, I was no longer an individual, and my achievements were no longer my own. I was simply an anomaly.
This story originally ran in The Daily Iowan.